Misophonia: When Ordinary Sounds are Upsetting
Summary: Misophonia is a condition where people are exquisitely sensitive to certain sounds, reacting with extreme distress, anger and even rage. It can cause extreme stresses in relationships with other people. People with misophonia often report having to avoid social interactions including mealtimes due to how stressful it is. It can be hard for people without misophonia to understand how distressing this is. Misophonia is a brain condition due to differences in how a person's brain is wired. It is not due to them purposely trying to be difficult or controlling. The good news, is that supports and treatments can be very helpful, such as those delivered by audiologists.
Do you get upset, irritated or very angry when you hear people:
- Eating or chewing with their mouths open?
- Typing on a keyboard?
- Making other soft sounds that others aren’t bothered by?
If so, you may have misophonia.
Many of us have had the experience of hearing sounds that make us feel uncomfortable. The sound of fingernails scraping across a chalkboard makes many people cringe. Sirens or smoke alarms make our hearts beat faster. Being very aware of certain sounds, and reacting strongly to them may have been very helpful to early humans. This may have helped them survive, by being alert to warning signals of possible danger.
Today, some people feel overwhelmed by their sensitivity to certain sounds. And this can cause problems with their everyday lives.
Misophonia is a fairly new term. It’s a condition where people develop an intense dislike of certain sounds. They can react to these sounds with distress, anger and even rage. Misophonia is also known as Selective Sound Sensitivity Syndrome (“4S”).
Family and friends may find misophonia hard to understand. Since they don’t have the same problem, the sounds that bother you don’t bother them at all. They may feel that you’re just being difficult. They may say things like, “Just get over it!” or “Stop being so sensitive!”
In misophonia, the person's ears work normally at hearing sounds. However, the person's brain becomes triggered by certain sounds that activate the limbic system in the brain and trigger the body's 'fight/ flight’ alarm system.
Misophonia appears to be more common with:
- Children entering their ‘tweens' approximately age 9-12.
- People with certain conditions such as
- Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD);
- Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD);
- Brain injury;
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD);
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).
Misophonia is part of a group of sound tolerance difficulties (decreased sound tolerance).
Other conditions in this group are:
- Hyperacusis: where people are more sensitive to all sounds in general (for example, normal sounds seem too loud).
- Phonophobia: Fear of certain sounds.
Take good care of your brain
Get enough sleep
Get enough exercise (at least 60-minutes a day)
Avoid the triggering sounds. This usually means moving away from the sounds that are bothering you.
Wear hearing protection or ear plugs. This can help for a short while, but using hearing protection for a long time can cause other problems.
Share information with family and friends about misophonia. Explain that your distress caused by certain sounds is a condition known as misophonia, and it is due to the way your brain is wired.
Wondering about misophonia?
- Start by seeing an audiologist with experience in misophonia or tinnitus (ringing in the ears).
- The audiologist will take a careful history, and check your hearing. It’s helpful if the audiologist works with a team of professionals familiar with misophonia and sensory processing disorder, autism spectrum disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder and brain injury.
- Examples of other professionals might include an occupational therapist (OT) with experience in sensory processing disorders.
Since misophonia is a relatively new condition, researchers are still learning about what may be helpful. In the meantime, the following treatments appear to be helpful:
- Talking therapies: Talking therapies such as cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) can help by changing the way that people they think about and respond to disturbing sounds. It can help with problem solving, and can help people express their needs and distress in more helpful ways.
- Neurofeedback: Neurofeedback is a type of brain training that directly changes your brain waves to improve how your brain functions. Misophonia is sometimes linked to under or over active brain wave activity in different areas. Neurofeedback training can help return brain wave activity to more normal levels.
- Misophonia Retraining Therapy (MRT): MRT uses soft, broadband noise to help reduce the importance of trigger sounds for the nervous system.
Other treatments that may help:
- Desensitization Therapy
- Hypnotherapy (hypnosis)
- Relaxation or mindfulness exercises
- Dozier Trigger Tamer App, is a mobile application created by Thomas Dozier of the Misophonia Treatment Institute (misophoniatreatment.com). The app is designed to help the brain ‘rewire’ itself to overcome the sound sensitivity. The app uses soothing music along with ‘trigger sounds’ to help the user to gradually become less sensitive to distressing sounds.
The Misophonia Association
Tinnitus Practitioners Association
Oregon Tinnitus and Hyperacusis Treatment Center
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Written by Caryn Bursch, Doctor of Audiology, and members of the Mental Health Information Committee of the Children’s Hospital of Eastern Ontario (CHEO), an interdisciplinary group that includes psychiatry, psychology, child/ youth care, social work, nursing, and occupational therapy.
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Date Posted: Jan 15, 2016
Date of Last Revision: Jun 22, 2020
Date of Last Revision: Jun 22, 2020